Monthly Archives: November 2014
The disclaimer – I write from a place of white privilege, but also as the parent of black kids whose grandparents came from the Caribbean to hard scrabble a life for themselves and their children in the face of racism and poverty. Maybe this is a post I shouldn’t write, but the time has long since passed for holding things in.
My children are black because they can’t ever be white. Can we ever move beyond that visible division – one I can’t truly feel in my soul – in my own family? Probably not in my life time. When my ancestors took it upon themselves to enslave and transport their fellow man across the ocean they caused a deep wounding to those people, the consequences of which are still festering and killing people today. I’m not in that place because I am white. I am not in Ferguson, and I don’t know Michael Brown’s family. But it’s whilst standing on the edge of that place of deep wounding, looking into the abyss of inequity and inhumanity, from which I write this post.
The fact is, white people still don’t get it. They don’t get that when Ferguson exploded yesterday it was an expression of the sheer pain of the seemingly endless injustice to a whole people – and not just straight up lawlessness. The white people who fire the plastic bullets and the tear gas and the pepper spray cannot feel the effects of four hundred years of oppression; the anger of centuries filled with black folk dying at the hands of white people, and the white people’s system. The shameful history of black people being literally destroyed, unremarked, without monument, but all mourned.
I find myself thinking, we, America, will not forget Michael Brown. Like Rodney King in LA, Trayvon Martin in Florida, or Stephen Lawrence in Eltham, London. But these cases, like that of the schoolgirls in Birmingham Alabama – and let us name them: Cynthia Wesley, Carole Robertson and Addie Mae Collins, all 14 years old, and 11-year-old Denise McNair; or 14 year old Emmett Till killed in Mississippi, or young Will Brown in Omaha – they will be etched on some minds forever.
But most lives that are lost to the system, both in America and here in the UK, do go unremarked, with barely a flicker in the press. It seems to me that, particularly when young black men die in our cities and towns, their deaths are the collateral damage of a system of white privilege. Until we properly address the latter, we can’t impact on the rage and pain of the former. To our disgrace we make laws, but we don’t change people’s hearts and minds. Diversity has become a tick box on a form, but we don’t succeed in teaching people not to be scared of others. We fail in the main task of humanity, which is to live in harmony, even with our differences, in peace and understanding – if not agreement.
My children’s father’s friends – born and brought up in the inner city of Hackney – so many are dead. Dead from what I heard described last week as a ‘lethal absence of hope’. And it is the system that takes away that hope. Most young people never even have it to lose it. The system teaches from a young age that if a boy is born black in this country, in America, in the hood, they have no birthright to hope. They can expect to be labelled early on, given a partial education, and plenty of white people to be frightened – sometimes out of their own blind ignorance, partly the prevailing media narrative. Many young black men can expect to be diagnosed with mental health issues, be criminalised, fall victim to gangs and drugs and everything that goes with that territory. Black men do this, not because they have no aspirations but because any budding aspirations will be ground out daily under the heel of the white press. Every day a black man or boy dies and no-one cares. In today’s equal society, some lives still seem expendable. Those that survive, survive. No-one’s breaking down the white-tinted glass ceiling. Time to call it like it is.
I write all this from a place of white privilege, but I feel this partly is Ferguson’s pain. White privilege meant as a kid I got to imagine my future. Down the road my future partner in life got a future handed to him – one he has fought to simply survive. Ferguson is in pain. Michael Brown”s family are in pain. A whole community is in pain. I hope America, the world will sit up and listen to what’s being said through the flames and the violence of Missouri, before it outright condemns and scapegoats. Do this now, before the twisted racial narrative continues unapprehended down the street in the 21st century – whilst we all pretend we’ve fixed it. We haven’t, there’s a long way to go. Until my children’s father can walk down the street without feeling he has to jump off the pavement to pass a white person, until teachers no longer have to look for the teachable moments in the pictures from Ferguson, until we are done with ticking boxes whilst still fearing our fellow humans, we are nowhere near the equality we have apparently enshrined in law. Until it doesn’t suit us. Like in Michael Brown’s case.
The title is a line from the Bob Dylan song, It’s Alright Ma (I’m Only Bleeding) and it’s true, I suppose.
There are at least two ways of looking at the inevitability of that fact. One is that we are lucky to be here at all. Another is the view that a friend shared with me once, not long before they too died. That perspective went along the lines that the world is sad, bad place, filled with human suffering, in the main. I refused to agree at the time. And then, as if to prove the point somehow, the friend went right on ahead and died and made my own vault of pain a little more full than before.
In fact, the last decade seems to have been filled with people I love dying. I miss one or other, or all of them on any given day, in a multiplicity of ways. And yet I have reflected that on that one occasion, when I hotly denied the view that the world is a sad, bad place I think I did so, at least partially, in a reactive and naive way.
I was a player in the pantomime of human life.
Oh yes it is.
Oh no it’s not.
It’s behind you!
Actually, it’s not though, is it? It’s ahead you – your death and mine. The death of those we love is behind us, around us and ahead of us. But my question really is this? Does the fact of all of us being busy dying, does that truly have the power to rob the whole world of all its possibility and beauty and joy? Or is it just that the ego fears its own demise so very much, that it cannot conceive of a world of beauty existing, even when it itself is lost?
Are we so self-centred that we think our own suffering makes the whole world bad? Look out of your window and see what you see. It’s up to you which perspective to take. No matter how bad things seem to get, we always have a choice about how to see things.
I’m sticking with the awe-struck interpretation of the world, and even the pantomime of humans, for now anyway.
There’s something about this rehearsal recording that is very touching.
The performance is not earth-shattering; it’s a rehearsal after all. I think it’s to do with the lack of audience. The pair are stripped right back, playing only for the other musician: George Harrison plays to Bob Dylan, and Dylan plays back to him.
There’s a moment where Harrison relaxes. It’s palpable. Enjoy.
This post articulates why the whole Geldof Christmas song makes me squirm, on a lyrical level at least. The humanitarian agenda is harder to unpick. I suppose the best thing is to donate and let the song do as it will anyway.
This has been done by the eldest (twelve) on my phone when she was sitting in the car for a few minutes whilst I bought some dog food at the pet shop.
This has been done by the girl who says she doesn’t like art (as it’s taught in school) anymore.
This has been done by someone who has an instinctive approach to form.
The word according to Russell Brand.
He ain’t wrong though. How in the hell else do you think all that bad news gets consumed so goddam avidly?